Love ; A Manipulation of Emotions
I was told by an acquaintance not long ago that Love is somewhat a kind of game which is a manipulation of emotions to control the mind. It is a game where the one who displays affection first, gives up total control and goes around like a dog on a collar. In a relationships when you were the one to call first, then he/she always was the one to hang up first, and when you got together, you'd always run to him/her and you'd always give him/her gifts on anniversaries; these are the consequences of dating without any self respect. If we continue to acting so pathetic, we will always be treated like trash by men/women and we will grow old, all by ourselves.
I disagree, totally. Full stop.
Pathetic is a harsh word, at least for me. Because i don't think people with affections and purity should be labelled as that. What's wrong with if we admitting that we are in love with them..what's wrong with calling and visiting them because we are worried? What's wrong with wanting to do everything for them? Why should one considered in love if he/she couldn't take it whenever someone he/she 'in love' with showed some affections to them? isn't it absurd?
For me love is universal and subjective but true Love is hard to find. If we want to call love as a game people play, a soft-hearted-nature of person would normally fail in this game. Only mean ones survived. A kind hearted person always accepting hurt and agrees to the rules which by means let the other wins for the name of love. That is what love is..giving and forgiving.
People accepting facts differently from one another. Same thing goes with accepting love. Some people may cry over unnecessary; some may laugh over it. Some take love to the highest level some may take it for granted. Believe it or not; not many can stand the pressure of love.
Some people either men or women; in my personal opinion are bored with nice person. They get bored very easily. They liked us because we are nice and they left because of the same stupid reason..we are nice! Sometimes they would say...give me some space! What space? A pair with total affections towards another needless space for themselves..we can fill up the spaces with our love together. But that reasons are meant for nice persons like us...the total saint in love; if i may called it. Somehow that don't fit.
Whatever the matter is, whatever the pressure is, once love striked, you will find the beauty that lies behind.
